Globalisation has mixed tradition with modern development in Cambodia, and it’s not slowing down any time soon. From Christmas to Chinese New Year, and now Valentine’s Day, a cultural whirlpool of West and East is moulding the future of the Kingdom.
In the past few years, LIFT has hit the streets and found that most young Cambodians were buying gifts for their boyfriends and girlfriends. This year, it seems there’s a new rising trend in Cambodia’s young generation: waiting for Valentine’s Day to confess and consummate their love.
And because of this jump to bed, guest houses across Phnom Penh are cashing in.
“Teens are more likely to check into guest houses located on the city’s outskirts or on small blocks, where not many people can recognise them,” said Ket Thearith, the owner of Victoria Guest House.
“These are the guest houses that have special discounts [on Valentine’s Day],” Ket Thearith added.
Another guest house owner who wished to remain unnamed said that his guest house is unpopular on Valentine’s Day because of his check-in policy.
“Young people don’t like it here because it’s in the middle of the capital, and our policy is that guests can only have a room if they show their ID card in advance,” he said.
Many guest houses in Phnom Penh plan to discount on Valentine’s Day and also charge by the hour. For example, some will set a specific price-per-hour. One popular rate will be five dollars per three hours.
According to Dy, who would not reveal his full name, having three hours would encourage young Cambodians to use the whole time for sexual activities – whether planned or not.
Dy said he spoke from his own experience on Valentine’s Day.
In response to the popularity of guest house discounts on Valentine’s Day, the Ministry of Interior and Ministry of Tourism set a regulatory law stating that Cambodian citizens under the age of 18 are not allowed to rent any rooms without the permission of an adult.
A police officer, who chose not to reveal his name, said that those caught in violation of this law will be brought back to their parents and educated as to why it is an important law. Their parents would then have to sign a legal contract to prove their child was returned and “educated”.
But will a law regulating guest houses really stop young Cambodians from their first time this Valentine’s Day?
Twenty-seven-year-old Ben Vannaren, an ANZ customer service consultant, said that “I hope that something like a discount at a guest house won’t compromise agreements between young lovers”.
Ben Vannaren added that “girls might regret making a decision too soon”.
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It is a choice for all young people. Love is Love!
Why you have to stop people from having sex?
How many eyes, ears, noses you have to taking care people having sex?
Force people and motivate them have too far different effectiveness.
You are better tell them about Safe Sex! If all of you want to have sex, will you come to tell someone?
Safe sex is the best way to help people to understand about life and being a good citizen.
Why you have to stop people from having sex?
How many eyes, ears, noses you have to taking care people having sex?
Force people and motivate them have too far different effectiveness.
You are better tell them about Safe Sex! If all of you want to have sex, will you come to tell someone?
Safe sex is the best way to help people to understand about life and being a good citizen.
It is a value day of the world with love to your family, fileiends, relatives, and others who you think you can share those loves. But it does not mean that you have to sacrify your virginity to those who just know or know in short period of time. Thinking of young adult for the V's day is different. Sacrify your virginity is not a way that women show the love to her lover. Men is waiting what you think wrongly, they persuade women to do something that they do not know the value of it.
Young Camobidian women, please treat yourself valuable. Nobody value you, but yourself.
Authority who concern, please take action to those hosts which break the law assigned.
Wish you the best in V's day.
Young Camobidian women, please treat yourself valuable. Nobody value you, but yourself.
Authority who concern, please take action to those hosts which break the law assigned.
Wish you the best in V's day.
I do appreciate the authors of this article for their courage to write about this tip-of-the-iceberg social trend because, generally, such a topical issue doesn't get to make a good debut on a newspaper. But, personally, I'm pleased that it finally made its first debut afterall on an English newspaper of great readership.
However, what concerns me most is the quality of this article itself. I understand that a majority of those working and writing for LIFT are still undergraduates, and, therefore, I know shouldn't take issue with them. Still, I'm going to voice my concerns regarding the language, tone and the professionalism this article embodies.
The article is entitled "The Valentine and the Virgin: What are Young Women thinking about?" Yet, the core of the issue underlying the trends
isn't discussed about. The authors fail to address the genuine sentiments amoung women themselves and their parents with reference to the issue, while bombarding the readers with the discounts, special price-per-hour, the opinions of guest house ownners, and the police officers instead.
However, what concerns me most is the quality of this article itself. I understand that a majority of those working and writing for LIFT are still undergraduates, and, therefore, I know shouldn't take issue with them. Still, I'm going to voice my concerns regarding the language, tone and the professionalism this article embodies.
The article is entitled "The Valentine and the Virgin: What are Young Women thinking about?" Yet, the core of the issue underlying the trends
isn't discussed about. The authors fail to address the genuine sentiments amoung women themselves and their parents with reference to the issue, while bombarding the readers with the discounts, special price-per-hour, the opinions of guest house ownners, and the police officers instead.
I think it is good to raise it up and to remind the young generation for the consideration ! in term of this paper, It is not enough to stop their thinking about their lover or stop their risk behavior on sexuality..The media system is play as important role to spread the information, especially the popular TV for young generation in Cambodia now is trying to speak and make any activity to attract the young generation to think how important of Valentine Day is ! So all those actions look encourage them too much involve with that day. My opinion I do not recognize this day as a value day.
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Srun Srorn, Surely all people need sex, but it should be in a proper way. Why? I have three reasons:
1) Sex doesn't mean Love. Love is feeling of happiness from beginning until end.
2) It is not too long to wait for sex after wedding (you value your lover).
3) We encourage people to exchange gifts for love, but sex.
In short, girls should understand. If men really love you, they value you.
I do appreciate the article which help remind girls. Please girls prevent yourselves.