The Editor,
I have followed the Phnom Penh Post stories exposing
pedophile activity and the subsequent letters to the editor. There are several
points of which we all need reminding. First, regardless of the reasons or
willingness of the children involved, they are still children. Their
personalities have not developed to the stage, in most cases, where they can
differentiate right from wrong, nor their bodies developed where orifices are
less likely to be damaged by sexual acts. Therefore, they risk severe
psychological damage through the sex and aggressive drives being stimulated
beyond ego development and through distortion of reality, leading to the defense
mechanisms of denial, rationalization, self-deception and dissociation, among
other problems. As the child matures, these defense mechanisms are likely to
continue and can lead to horrendous issues in the young adult's life, not the
least being alcohol or drug addiction, as the person attempts to escape
reality.
The physical damage can be even worse than the psychological
damage. This is the age of HIV/AIDS and despite popular myth, HIV/AIDS does not
discriminate between sexes or social classes or geographical boundaries. In
sub-Saharan Africa this killer disease, for which there is no cure, is spread
almost evenly between men and women and even in the USA, since the early days of
the epidemic, eight percent of the victims have been women. Women also catch HIV
and women also die from AIDS.
The psychological defense mechanisms of
self-deception and denial of reality apply equally to the abusers of children.
The most at risk groups for catching HIV are the middle classes between 18 and
35, who can afford to travel extensively. This group tends to think it is
immortal and is therefore more likely to take risks. Risks like engaging in
unsafe sex with under age children. Young people, earning too much money for
their own good and with no sense of self-responsibility, on holiday or business
in a strange country, are likely to let money and power go to their
heads.
Sex with underage children is about power and control in sexual
relations. Both lie with the abuser, not the abused. The point of this letter is
to remind readers that we are all at risk. Human nature is the same as it has
always been. Debauchery, deviance and deception are still the order of the day.
Therefore, we all have an interest in supporting NGOs helping to expose underage
sex.
Finally, I note that saliva is used to test for HIV in some
Southeast Asian countries. Apparently, it is quicker and just as reliable as the
Elisa-Western blot tests. This would seem to suggest that, if one can test for
HIV in saliva, then it must be possible to catch HIV from an exchange of saliva
fluids, such as in deep kissing. Do you know what your partner was doing last
night, last week or last month? Have you had an HIV test lately, or ever? Given
human weakness, can you trust your partner-male or female-completely and are you
betting your life on it.
- Brian Fitzjohn, Northern Territory University, Australia
(A
World Health Organization (WHO) expert in Cambodia says that the HIV virus is
not present in saliva in concentrations high enough to cause infection, but
anti-bodies are present in such minute quantities that can be tested. One cannot
get HIV from deep kissing.- Ed.)
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